01 · Your week
Which evenings are actually free, and which are already someone else's. Two people who both keep Sundays for a nesting partner are compatible in a way a quiz can't guess.
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A dating app for adults in ethically non-monogamous relationships — where dating more than one person happens with everyone's knowledge and agreement. We match on the two things that actually decide whether it works: when you're free, and what you've already agreed with the people you love.
One email when we open. Nothing else, ever — and no tracking pixels on this page.
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A compatibility report, roughly
Tuesday and Thursday, you're both free. That's where this starts.
You both keep Sundays for a nesting partner. Neither of you has to explain that.
You want overnights. They've agreed not to, for now. Better to know on day one.
out of 100 — mostly because your weeks fit
How the matching works
Most dating apps ask what you like. That's not what makes a second or third relationship work. During signup you answer four sets of questions, and we compare your answers to someone else's honestly — including where you don't line up.
Which evenings are actually free, and which are already someone else's. Two people who both keep Sundays for a nesting partner are compatible in a way a quiz can't guess.
What you've already settled with existing partners — overnights, disclosure, how many nights out. Comparable answers, so a conflict shows up as a conflict.
How you date now and what you're looking for. Nobody has to explain the basics of their own life in a first message.
We show where you don't line up, in the same report, with the same weight. A match that hides the hard part isn't a match.
Long conversations with people about how they actually organise their relationships. No experts, no advice — just the logistics nobody talks about.
Small mixers and workshops in six cities. Vetted guest lists, a code of conduct read out loud, and no photography without asking.